Most wars are avoided, by diplomacy, manouving, posturing, and ultimately by understanding, "know your enemy, know yourself and you will never be defeated". Its only when people don't understand, or can't that things progress to the possibility of fighting, and fighting always costs a lot and carries the risk of loosing.
The objective of war is to "make the enemy do your will", to obey.
When war is 'fought' it seems to take three phases, the opening, the actual contest for who will win and then the long hard part where the side that won has to keep on fighting until the otherside finaly has to accept its over.
That why we made such a terrible mistake in 1918, letting the Germany Army go home with vast numbers of ordinary soldiers thinking they could still have won. They did'nt see what the Generals had, and knew since Ludendorf's offensive had petered out.
Its that belief paved the way for the process that lead to WWII.
In the likes of Afghanistan the key might just be paying $5.50 a day for a worker when the Taliban pay $5 for a fighter.
Being top dog is'nt enough, despite what Machiavelli said, because the minute our backs are turned the old habbits would return. After all the 'top dog' method is what characterised the Imperial effort after the massacre at Kabul, during the Empire. We would simply send troops in to punish them, show them who is 'top dog' and I fail to see how that effort produced much good for us or them. Afghanistan is the mess it is precisely because we did'nt go in and engineer a proper functional state long ago. The Soviets would never have gotten their puppets in if we had.
In Iraq the 'war' such as it is is over, whats happening now is a new war among Iraqis over who rules Iraq. And I have some deep concerns about what Maliki really is.
